Love is always patient

My dear girl friend is out of the state for learning purpose. For almost 1 year we haven't seen each other. But we are still on relation. relation only end when you impose restrictions on each other. It flourish when you give freedom to each other. This freedom shows that how much you two trust each other. As love is not noun but a verb. It is not a thing but a process. Love is always patient and kind.
It is never jealous.It does not take offense and is not resentful.Love is to love and give love unconditionally.
Your whole identity to me is like this warm summer air. I cant see it but I can feel it.

Cracking CAT exam is simple

I have lots CAT course material. If someone need it kindly leave comment so that I could help the needy aspirant. In my last attempt I had scored 86percentile. I would love to post the hard questions of Cat level plus useful shortcuts. So if anyone need Cat level aptitude question kindly leave a comment for topic name.

Saying NO to people

I never say never. That was me mean while ago. So what happened now? Have I started saying no to people. And what saying yes or no has to do in people’s life.

                                There was a time when I could manage time for everything, especially friends. It was not that difficult to manage and mingle with everyone. Now time has changed for me and so changed the priorities.

                Two week back one of my friend requested me to meet her. She needed me in her newly joined job. When she asked me I said yes without giving any second thought. In the first meeting I got late and it never happened. Then for some days owing to my tight schedule I couldn’t make it. That was enough to piss her off. And after some day she called me and told me that I am irresponsible and of no use. And I believe we are through now.

                                I could have turned the situation by turning down her request. Rather than appearing irresponsible and uncaring, I would have ended up being pragmatic and little bit of busy. It is not my problem only, but is the problem of many people. There are many people who find it hard to no.

                                

                                What ever be the reason they only end up burdening themselves. Some of us don’t want to appear selfish, by putting our personal requirement in priorities. Some fear losing the friend by turning their request down.

               

                          So what is the solution for this? It s really hard to say no so one should rather than saying no directly, could dodge the situation. We could ask for some time to ponder over the proposal and see if we could meet with the proposal. Or could say, I appreciate you that you think of me worth this stuff but I am a bit busy. All these things will show that you can do these things and your willingness to do, but you don’t actually have enough time to meet these commitments.  At least these things will save us from the embarrassment of not making it to the promise.

Visual Riddle

I came across this illusion which i wanted to share.
The image below has a lots of beans, but in between there is a man's head.Find it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Marriages are made in Heaven

 

                                              To one of my married friend I asked what is wife dear xy.To which he replied to me that wife is a creature who will nag you daily to change your habits . And then after some years will say you are not the same person I loved. She gets glad after getting a treat of 800 Rs per head in an opulent restaurant but gets inner satisfaction only after getting 80 Rs/kg at the rate of 75 Rs/Kg from sabziwala (VEGETABLE VENDOR).She would eat biryani in kitty party at the same time makes kichaddi with others. He wanted to be his servant rather than his husband. According to him the only person she talks very affectionately is their servant. `` Will you come yesterday, don’t get late, you hadn’t came yesterday I missed you”, all these lovely comments are for servant here only.

                                

I asked him how do manage then. He replied to which I do not manage anything she is the manager of the house. My work there is to only pass the bill. But when I get discouraged I watch my wedding video. Why yaar the same wedding why you want to watch which is getting on your nerve. My dear buddy replied; oh buddy what I wanted to say I watch that video from end to beginning. ‘What are you mad’, I asked. You watch video from end too beginning. You watch video in reverse mode. Are you insane? Or something goes wrong with your mind. He-No buddy, I love that video only when I watch it in reverse. When the video is in reverse I took her mangle sutra off her neck, we reverse the phere (circle), the Pundit opens the knot me and my friends jumping and dancing run back slowly. What a lovely scene!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy Independence Day

Happy Independence Day to all dear Indians and rest of the world. We all know that this day our beloved country got free. When I was small kid Independence Day was about holiday and free sweets. When in college it was about hanging out with girl friends in the name of Independence Day. I don’t want to recall those hey days of course of mine.

                Whatever I am very happy as today after very long time I got up early. And then I rushed for running, no I was least interested in Mr. Singh tirade. How could same boring speech every time whenever they give live performance. Plus this is India here people are least interested in speech; rather they adore action and execution. Plus we have too many occasions here to lesson to their speech. Our politicians are very smart and took advantage of every occasion to bore public with their same banal speech.

                                Any ways I am happy that we got independence in this day. I am free citizen of free India. I have right to vote, choose my government and express my opinion freely, with some limitation. I could wander anywhere in my country as I am safe here with some limitation.

                                So friends Happy Independence Day.................

Salwaar Ya Talwaar

I have to say something to the girls out there, not something but many things. Yes to all you girls whether you are reading this or not. Why you drape salwaar in chunni if only it has to cover your neck.this thought doesn't  came instantly. Few days back I came across a girl in my localities, who watch me across the road & started to hide her treasury with her chunni. Ok I don’t mind this girl has every right to hide their property in order to preserve her modesty. Next day the same girl was flashing her beautiful assets on t shirt.

That moment all those crap about modesty, culture hit my mind. But as she started to came closer (not that closer across the lane understand), I started to gain enlightenment. What a silly thought modesty. Yaar she was at that moment not hiding anything but highlighting. Kind of an arrow or underline or can say Bold, italic etc. Whatever, girls in India today is getting bolder and hot today? Those jeans and T shirt is tasty treat to eyes. It shows all the curves and hidden beauty mind it.

So it is my appeal to all guys doesn’t get discouraged by all those hide and seek games. Rather live the moment and enjoy the view. And to the girls please do wear T shirts well pressed, I mean which is well pressed or ironed. And yes the sight would be more beautiful if it has written something on it. And thing we will like. Even if it is some Sanskrit slokas we guy will manage. Now to the jeans that girls and ladies wear here in India. Yaar I haven’t yet came across low rise jeans in India. So it’s my humble request to ladies, girls, bhabhis kindly show some show.

Time is changing very rapidly, everything around is getting tough
So,it's good  that women here are also changing.India is a country were marriage is the institution everyone believe.Not only believe but follow devoutly. Devoutly ? yes remember the honor killings. And here every husband expect his wife not only hot but supporting also. But these boldness got to be has some benchmark. Which require it should not go above Mallika sherawat neither go down to that of Amrita Arora.

yahoooooooooo

There was a time when I would chat in yahoo messenger for hours and relish meeting new people. But now now even a minute seems cumbersome to bear. Why..............well you want to chat with real people. And of late yahoo has lots of bots.10 years back when I was barely 15 years old I had this addiction of chat with girls under the mask of some 23 year male. I had this curiosity of knowing mature girl much earlier. Many things to woo a girl I learned from this pretence. Thinking that one day when I will really reach age 23 I will make new friends to hang out with.

Now whenever I enter messenger most of them are either robots or male. If by luck I find any girl or even lady, she would be busy with her pre-appointed mate. Few days back my friend invited me to yahoo for chatting. After having good chat I decided to try my luck on chatting. Whenever I would send some babe hi IM, either she is bot or she would ask me check her site for live striping you know......you know.

So somehow my luck betrayed me and I bumped into a male America-no. We had healthy chat and then I bid adieu not only to him but to yahoo chat also.

Cycling

                                                                           

I have made it a point to commute daily to my office by cycle. I am not kidding (to the the people who know me).Cycling got its own important to the person and to the environment. I believe every one should do cycling whatever may be the reason.


I had stumbled upon a site which showed cycling is the best way to avoid obesity for women. But I have rarely seen any women here in India using cycle. And those to whom I have seen are female labours (ohhh).Others are from posh colony, but in gym more interested in gossips. I mean whatever is the exercise it is more salubrious in open environment.


In my locality Mrs Sharma is worried about her recent (not ancient) weight gain. She happened to confess it to me one day. I gave her free advice for walking and ................also randomly suggested that she could consider cycling .To which she presented me the most annoying face she could.Oh come on I suggested her good workout not bar dance job. She is trying yoga now and I have wished her best. Anyways I don’t have any priority for losing weight. Rather I am working on my abs.


Let’s see what structure I came up with.