So how was your day !!!

While beginning a day I always believe life is a magic. The beauty of the Life is in next second which hides thousand of secrets. Night has ended for another day, morning has come in special way with the great thought that may our smile like the sun rays and leave our worry at the end of the day. The idealistic never blames a day because good day gives him happiness and bad day gives him experience. Worst day give him a lesson and good day gives him memories. The optimist never bothered to try the high he can fly, until he gives a real good try, just does his best in each try, make the sky has to shift little high.

How to win people's heart............

How to win people’s heart? Easy make them laugh. Making people laugh is the best one can do for people around us for free. People will naturally incline towards you if they find you funny. Tell them funny incident with extra humor happens to you. Cracking a joke will also do.
                                              Everybody thinks they have a good sense of humor, but many never bother trying to improve it. A sense of humor is something that can be learned and developed over time. Take the time and effort to learn, and you'll soon find you have the skill to make others laugh. And the better you can become at that, the more smoothly your relationships will run.

Lets go to heaven on earth

I stumbled these pics while surfing....................

Lake Huron (French: Lac Huron) is one of the five Great Lakes of North America. It is bounded on the east by Ontario, Canada and on the west by Michigan, USA. The name of the lake is derived from early French explorers who named it based on the Huron people inhabiting the region.

  

Mosquitoes atyachar Again

mosquito in meditation

They pray above you when you sleep cosily in night,chant perplexing shaloks (words) and hover around you, not because they are religious(or they),but they test their stamina and endurance of pray .Army after army,troops after troops come to invade you.Several chemicals are made to overcome it,but all succumb before them and the army multiplies.
                                   Rich kya poor kya,bacche kya buddhe kya,mard kya aurat kya ye kisi ko nahi chodhate(just like our beloved gabber singh).Pets of man are tortured by them as if they know friend of enemy is enemy. Last night i had hard time tackling these pesky super mini creatures.Allout was on,coil was on and I was also on, all fighting extra hard(is that called spirit?) .However in the morning I have found some mosquitoes toiling.I sprayed hit in the room and even in the hot after noon they were chasing me graciously. I guess the recent budget and price rise has forced them to work extra hard and perform part time.But enough is enough.I am now seeking revenge against the most useless creature in entire universe.Of course useless,they do nothing except biting and spread maladies.Malaria,dengue,yellow fever are the gift package they come with.
                                                              World health organization reports that malaria infects 300 to 500 people every year in South America,South east Asia and India.Coming to killing them,people will consider me sadist.But these tiny creatures has trained me over time to hate them.

Pipe bending in Bhilai (Chhattisgarh)

bended steel pipe in railing.

I never had wondered in my childhood how much pain a super hero has to bear to perform super actions. This empathy doesn’t pop inside me for no reason. The story begins here, for no reason i got charged and went to our workshop [Verma Engineering Workshop Subhash Chowk, Supela, Bhilai (specialist in pipe bending) ph-9303270388] to try my hands on pipe bending “The real iron pipe”

                            

  

  Pipe bending is definitely is no child’s play. As it not only require strong arms but also an aesthetic touch. In our workshop we bend all kind of pipe to all forms whether its iron or steel. Just bring it and we will bend it like Beckham. We have machines for bending pipes. But we also have to perform some part mechanically for fine finishing. 

                                  

              

 For steel pipes we only use machine as they are glossy and require preserving their look. Steel pipes are durable but easier to bend then iron pipes. Now a day people are inclined more towards steel pipe because they look glossy and shines.Plus malls are becoming more common in small cities also and they are using it in abundance. In Bhilai Dist-Durg we bend all type of pipes and if you need to bend pipes kindly contact us in the following address


Verma Engineering Workshop 
Subhash Chowk,Supela, Bhilai
Dist-Durg PH-9303270388
C.G

Sufi songs with Indian touch .....

 Now days my inclination for songs has moved to more towards Sufi genre. I always love songs that have dedication; message and inspiration (remember those hai huku songs of 90s). So if I were to chose Indian song now I will lesson to songs with Sufi touch. And more precisely the songs of Rahat Fateh Ali khan. This man is amazing and I like the way he sing. Sufi songs have this divine power that transcends me to another level. Their other chunk of Sufi Singers for instance Kailash kher (who can forgot teri deewani) but I am more biased towards toward Rahat ji (He give so much Rahat).

                                                Sufi songs can be said direct linking to the divine through Sufism. Singing purely and in rapt to the God. These songs can be said to be composed by Islams greatest saint from beginning of Sufism. Sufi devotional music popular in South Asia, particularly in areas with a historically strong Muslim presence, such as Pakistan, especially Punjab and Sindh, and parts of North India. The style is rare, though not entirely absent, in North and West Pakistan, Bangladesh, and Kashmir. It is a musical tradition that stretches back more than 1200 years. Sufi music received international exposure through the work of the late Pakistani singer Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan and other Singers.

                                The song Ore piya from the movie Aaja Nachale will make your heart zoom. This song is sung by Rahat Fateh Ali khan. He must have spent hard on this song to sing it so nice Lesson to this song and love will run onto your arms, embrace your heart and flash your soul.

Song Name:  O Re Piya - Aaja Nachle

Album Name:  Aaja Nachle

Singer Names: Rahat Fateh Ali Khan,

Lyricist Name: Jaideep Sahni

O Re Piya Haye� (3)
Udne Laga Kyon Man Baawla Re
Aaya Kahan Se Yeh Hosla Re
O Re Piya Haye� (2)
Tanabana Tanabana Bunti Hawaa Haaye Bunti Hawa
Boondein Bhi To Aaye Nahi Baaz Yahan
Sagish Mein Shaamil Sara Jahan Hai
Har Zare Zare Ki Yeh Iltiza Hai
O Re Piya
O Re Piya Haye� (2)
O Re Piya
Ni Re ,Re Re Ga
Ga Ga Ma
Ma Ma Pa
Pa Ma Ga Re Sa
Sa Re Re Sa
Ga Ga Re
Ma Ma Ga
Pa Pa Ma
Dha Dha Pa
Ni Ni Sa Sa Pa
Pa Sa Ma Pa Dha Ni Sa Ni
Re Ni Sa Sa Sa.. . . . ..
Nazrein Bolen Duniya Bole
Dil Ki Zaban Haaye Dil Ki Zubaan
Ishq Maange Ishq Chahe Koi Toofan
Chalna Aahiste Ishq Naya Hai
Pehla Yeh Vada Humne Kiya Hai
O Re Piya Haaye� (2)
O Re Piya
Piyaaaaa....
Yehhh Piya
Nange Pairo Pe Angaro
Chalti Rahi Haaye Chalti Rahi
Lagta Hai Ke Gairo Mein
Palti Rahi Haaye
Le Chal Wahan Jo
Mulk Tera Hai
Jahil Zamana
Dushman Mera Hai
Haaye
O Re Piya Haye� (5)

US OPEN 2010 is all about Federer

                                                   Well  Federer is comfortably through to his third round. Nadal has also won his first set. I want both these players to be in the final. Its so long I have seen these two players facing each other. Nadal is bidding in New York to become the seventh player in history to complete the career Grand Slam of Australian, French, Wimbledon and US Open titles. It would also make him just the fourth man in the Open era after Roger Federer, Pete Sampras and Rod Laver to win three consecutive Grand Slam titles following his back-to-back wins at the French Open and Wimbledon.

                                                Federer on the other hand will bid for his 6^th US open title. Federer even today is strong contender for the title. I am also glad that fedx has also added a coach in his team. He has created so many records and I wish that he increment those even higher.

                                                I am a big fan of fedx, he give me inspiration. Inspiration to stretch myself beyond limits. Inspiration to never give up even at the verge of losing. Inspiration to love your interest or what you are inclined at so much, that your thought and skill get honed and it reaches the next level of creativity. Inspiration to never lose your composure even in trying conditions.

Love is always patient

My dear girl friend is out of the state for learning purpose. For almost 1 year we haven't seen each other. But we are still on relation. relation only end when you impose restrictions on each other. It flourish when you give freedom to each other. This freedom shows that how much you two trust each other. As love is not noun but a verb. It is not a thing but a process. Love is always patient and kind.
It is never jealous.It does not take offense and is not resentful.Love is to love and give love unconditionally.
Your whole identity to me is like this warm summer air. I cant see it but I can feel it.

Cracking CAT exam is simple

I have lots CAT course material. If someone need it kindly leave comment so that I could help the needy aspirant. In my last attempt I had scored 86percentile. I would love to post the hard questions of Cat level plus useful shortcuts. So if anyone need Cat level aptitude question kindly leave a comment for topic name.

Saying NO to people

I never say never. That was me mean while ago. So what happened now? Have I started saying no to people. And what saying yes or no has to do in people’s life.

                                There was a time when I could manage time for everything, especially friends. It was not that difficult to manage and mingle with everyone. Now time has changed for me and so changed the priorities.

                Two week back one of my friend requested me to meet her. She needed me in her newly joined job. When she asked me I said yes without giving any second thought. In the first meeting I got late and it never happened. Then for some days owing to my tight schedule I couldn’t make it. That was enough to piss her off. And after some day she called me and told me that I am irresponsible and of no use. And I believe we are through now.

                                I could have turned the situation by turning down her request. Rather than appearing irresponsible and uncaring, I would have ended up being pragmatic and little bit of busy. It is not my problem only, but is the problem of many people. There are many people who find it hard to no.

                                

                                What ever be the reason they only end up burdening themselves. Some of us don’t want to appear selfish, by putting our personal requirement in priorities. Some fear losing the friend by turning their request down.

               

                          So what is the solution for this? It s really hard to say no so one should rather than saying no directly, could dodge the situation. We could ask for some time to ponder over the proposal and see if we could meet with the proposal. Or could say, I appreciate you that you think of me worth this stuff but I am a bit busy. All these things will show that you can do these things and your willingness to do, but you don’t actually have enough time to meet these commitments.  At least these things will save us from the embarrassment of not making it to the promise.

Visual Riddle

I came across this illusion which i wanted to share.
The image below has a lots of beans, but in between there is a man's head.Find it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Marriages are made in Heaven

 

                                              To one of my married friend I asked what is wife dear xy.To which he replied to me that wife is a creature who will nag you daily to change your habits . And then after some years will say you are not the same person I loved. She gets glad after getting a treat of 800 Rs per head in an opulent restaurant but gets inner satisfaction only after getting 80 Rs/kg at the rate of 75 Rs/Kg from sabziwala (VEGETABLE VENDOR).She would eat biryani in kitty party at the same time makes kichaddi with others. He wanted to be his servant rather than his husband. According to him the only person she talks very affectionately is their servant. `` Will you come yesterday, don’t get late, you hadn’t came yesterday I missed you”, all these lovely comments are for servant here only.

                                

I asked him how do manage then. He replied to which I do not manage anything she is the manager of the house. My work there is to only pass the bill. But when I get discouraged I watch my wedding video. Why yaar the same wedding why you want to watch which is getting on your nerve. My dear buddy replied; oh buddy what I wanted to say I watch that video from end to beginning. ‘What are you mad’, I asked. You watch video from end too beginning. You watch video in reverse mode. Are you insane? Or something goes wrong with your mind. He-No buddy, I love that video only when I watch it in reverse. When the video is in reverse I took her mangle sutra off her neck, we reverse the phere (circle), the Pundit opens the knot me and my friends jumping and dancing run back slowly. What a lovely scene!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy Independence Day

Happy Independence Day to all dear Indians and rest of the world. We all know that this day our beloved country got free. When I was small kid Independence Day was about holiday and free sweets. When in college it was about hanging out with girl friends in the name of Independence Day. I don’t want to recall those hey days of course of mine.

                Whatever I am very happy as today after very long time I got up early. And then I rushed for running, no I was least interested in Mr. Singh tirade. How could same boring speech every time whenever they give live performance. Plus this is India here people are least interested in speech; rather they adore action and execution. Plus we have too many occasions here to lesson to their speech. Our politicians are very smart and took advantage of every occasion to bore public with their same banal speech.

                                Any ways I am happy that we got independence in this day. I am free citizen of free India. I have right to vote, choose my government and express my opinion freely, with some limitation. I could wander anywhere in my country as I am safe here with some limitation.

                                So friends Happy Independence Day.................

Salwaar Ya Talwaar

I have to say something to the girls out there, not something but many things. Yes to all you girls whether you are reading this or not. Why you drape salwaar in chunni if only it has to cover your neck.this thought doesn't  came instantly. Few days back I came across a girl in my localities, who watch me across the road & started to hide her treasury with her chunni. Ok I don’t mind this girl has every right to hide their property in order to preserve her modesty. Next day the same girl was flashing her beautiful assets on t shirt.

That moment all those crap about modesty, culture hit my mind. But as she started to came closer (not that closer across the lane understand), I started to gain enlightenment. What a silly thought modesty. Yaar she was at that moment not hiding anything but highlighting. Kind of an arrow or underline or can say Bold, italic etc. Whatever, girls in India today is getting bolder and hot today? Those jeans and T shirt is tasty treat to eyes. It shows all the curves and hidden beauty mind it.

So it is my appeal to all guys doesn’t get discouraged by all those hide and seek games. Rather live the moment and enjoy the view. And to the girls please do wear T shirts well pressed, I mean which is well pressed or ironed. And yes the sight would be more beautiful if it has written something on it. And thing we will like. Even if it is some Sanskrit slokas we guy will manage. Now to the jeans that girls and ladies wear here in India. Yaar I haven’t yet came across low rise jeans in India. So it’s my humble request to ladies, girls, bhabhis kindly show some show.

Time is changing very rapidly, everything around is getting tough
So,it's good  that women here are also changing.India is a country were marriage is the institution everyone believe.Not only believe but follow devoutly. Devoutly ? yes remember the honor killings. And here every husband expect his wife not only hot but supporting also. But these boldness got to be has some benchmark. Which require it should not go above Mallika sherawat neither go down to that of Amrita Arora.

yahoooooooooo

There was a time when I would chat in yahoo messenger for hours and relish meeting new people. But now now even a minute seems cumbersome to bear. Why..............well you want to chat with real people. And of late yahoo has lots of bots.10 years back when I was barely 15 years old I had this addiction of chat with girls under the mask of some 23 year male. I had this curiosity of knowing mature girl much earlier. Many things to woo a girl I learned from this pretence. Thinking that one day when I will really reach age 23 I will make new friends to hang out with.

Now whenever I enter messenger most of them are either robots or male. If by luck I find any girl or even lady, she would be busy with her pre-appointed mate. Few days back my friend invited me to yahoo for chatting. After having good chat I decided to try my luck on chatting. Whenever I would send some babe hi IM, either she is bot or she would ask me check her site for live striping you know......you know.

So somehow my luck betrayed me and I bumped into a male America-no. We had healthy chat and then I bid adieu not only to him but to yahoo chat also.

Cycling

                                                                           

I have made it a point to commute daily to my office by cycle. I am not kidding (to the the people who know me).Cycling got its own important to the person and to the environment. I believe every one should do cycling whatever may be the reason.


I had stumbled upon a site which showed cycling is the best way to avoid obesity for women. But I have rarely seen any women here in India using cycle. And those to whom I have seen are female labours (ohhh).Others are from posh colony, but in gym more interested in gossips. I mean whatever is the exercise it is more salubrious in open environment.


In my locality Mrs Sharma is worried about her recent (not ancient) weight gain. She happened to confess it to me one day. I gave her free advice for walking and ................also randomly suggested that she could consider cycling .To which she presented me the most annoying face she could.Oh come on I suggested her good workout not bar dance job. She is trying yoga now and I have wished her best. Anyways I don’t have any priority for losing weight. Rather I am working on my abs.


Let’s see what structure I came up with.

Pumping iron

 Last night I picked up the flick “the pumping iron” released in 1976 starring the one & only one Arnold #.Well it was actually a documentary with a pinch of drama on body building(which is a perfect treat to me).I am a fitness freak since my school time. Had done few (phew) push ups to get into shape. The movie was about big guys vying for Mister Olympia Competition. I got charged up watching the trainings and work out.
                           Not to mention Arnold was terrific I mean come on Mister Olympia for 7 years in a row. Schwarzenegger began weight-training at fifteen. He was awarded the title of Mr. Universe at age 22 and went on to win the Mr. Olympia contest a total of seven times. Schwarzenegger has remained a prominent face in the bodybuilding sport long after his retirement, and has written several books and numerous articles on the sport. This shows the perfect dedication of man for passion. And when you mix passion with dedication no one, seriously no one can stop you.

pumping iron

Do you feel low confidence towards girls ???????????????

One of my friends asked me he feels low confidence towards the girls he came across. He find it difficult to make his first move. However even if he gather some courage and start the conversation it gets to nowhere. This is the problem many guys come across specially the teenagers. And it is very important for the teenagers to get through these early crises on relations. This will help them build these confidences as early as possible.

                                Now let’s get back to this friend who is having this huge problem over girls. He decided to get this professional help, you know from all these advisers online. And he equally got the reward, now even more confused.

                                                                So he turns up to me for help, now every one of us know a friend in need is a friend indeed, doesn’t we. I analyze him and came to the following conclusion.

Now this got 2 parts, what he got and how you use them

·         He is not very attractive (very big problem).

·         He doesn’t has good command over the English (which is not a big problem at all given that we are in India )

·         He sometimes make first move but then don’t know how to keep her interested in him.

·         Always go for very attractive girl.

This is what I advised to him.

If he is not attractive then he could use other qualities, which he doesn’t have. But one thing every guy has and that is to talk and praise. Now this praising part really needs confidence and wit. But if you feel a bit of low, get her cell number. Today everyone desire free incoming call from opposite gender. You can say anything you want to without any presentation or gesture over a cell phone. I asked him not to go for very attractive girl at first even an average girl will do well first time. Indeed we don’t fall in love only once. And you never learn from one person. Like a tennis player we have to cover each part of the turf. Wit and humor are all there to make a girl feel secure and to get a feeling that you are not insane or bore. If she likes you, you don’t have to work hard on that. She will laugh at whatever crap you throw at her. But if the ball is in her court, I mean if she is not that interested in you than get ready to work hard. He asked me what if she already has a boyfriend. Here I am a bit of evil. Never back down break ups happens and when it occur she will need a shoulder, and who knows it yours turn.

For further reference I referred him this book Getting the Love You Want, you could get this book here

  He is following all these things now and let’s see what happens in future.